A Slice of Life

It’s been busy lately, for weeks and months really ... an odd kind of unpredictable busy but these last 24 hours or so have felt slightly exceptional.  Full of good people, but exceptional.

Sunday afternoon found me feeling unwell.  I tried sleeping it off but only succeeded in messing up my ability to sleep that night.  Monday, I was up, on 4 hours of sleep.  I was heading for Brussels and had it all mapped out in terms of train times and which tram to catch to this new part of the city.

My idea was that, somewhere along the way during the day, I would find myself a really good espresso for strength.

I arrived at Antwerp’s Central Station with not enough time to join the queue that had formed in the coffee place.  I wasn’t prepared to have just any old coffee, I needed a really good espresso.  This much I knew.

No coffee ... I had no sooner settled on the train than I heard the conductor announce that this train would not be stopping at North Station ... my destination.  Okay, it said it would on the website but it wasn’t and so ... I climbed off in Mechelen to catch something else.  As I was waiting, a young man came sprinting up the stairs, just missing the Brussels-bound train I had left.  He threw his bag down angrily.  I waited a moment and mentioned the fact it wasn’t stopping at north station and then, voila, we ended up chatting a while.

His English was impeccable.  He was a student on his way to a mathematics exam but better than that, he was studying law and politics.  After talking of his year in Australia, we boarded the next train, held our breath while it tried to break down and the train guy announced that it had ... before it suddenly and successfully pulled out of the station.  We talked about Belgian politics all the way there.  Interesting, so interesting, as we head into a second year without a government since the last elections.

We said our goodbyes, I wished him luck although he was very relaxed about it all, and I wandered off to spend some time with the loveliest family over there in the big Belgian city.  They had a son with the most beautiful blue eyes I’ve ever seen and a delicious black labrador, as per the photograph below.  Anyone who knows me will know how I’ve been yearning for a labrador here in my Belgian life but never mind, it was enough to get a bit of a dog-fix for now.

After time spent in the park, the lovely family dropped me off on a tram that would get me back across the city more quickly however ... they assumed they were dealing with a normal adult who had a reasonable knowledge of Brussles.  I was ‘misplaced’ for a while but amused.  It’s never really that serious and getting unlost usually makes me laugh at myself.  I climbed off at Parc and found Central Station by some weird kind of instinctive luck. 

I NEEDED a coffee by now. But every place in the station, open at 3.30pm, looked like a place that make rubbish coffee.  I know ... it’s about me being a brat but I’m still readjusting to life after the exquisite Genovese espresso. 

I bought sparkling water, sadly, washing down the brie baguette thingy for lunch and boarded the train home ... falling asleep along the way. 

By the time I reached Antwerp Central Station I NEEDED a coffee.  I wandered into Starbucks, hoping their espresso was at least decent, as I can’t stand their other coffees. I followed the queue of people waiting, right to the end and voila, I was at the other exit door, so I exited.  Tram home, falling asleep, aching. 

Made it home and found it full of Miss 7 and her mum. 
Dinner was cooked by my very kind husband. 
Miss 7 was storied up and put to bed,then I couldn’t resist downloading and going through some photographs.

Getting late, I wanted to do one last check of the wedding photographs, before burning the 1,000 to dvds for the different bride friends who have been patient as I’ve sprinted through life since their weddings.

I fell into bed. 
Jess phoned, ‘How is Miss 7?’
‘Okay’, I replied. 
‘Okay ... good’, she tells me ‘but keep an eye on her because I’m vomiting’.
‘Oh ... she did say she had a sore tummy, I thought she didn’t want to sleep’.

1.32am ... Miss 7 starts vomiting.
I’m so tired.  The only solution seems, in that moment, to carry her bedding and put it next to my bed.
I do it.  I almost fall down the stairs doing it and ponder how nasty that would have been as I continue down.
We sleep until 3.23am when she vomits.
We sleep until 6.20am when she vomits again.
I consider this an uncommonly civilised kind of vomiting, as usually sleeping between bouts is all but impossible.

Morning finds me here at the computer.  Miss 7 on the couch, watching tv, drinking powerade slowly, sleeping a little ...

So it has been an active few hours, and then some, but by crikey ... I did meet some truly lovely people.  And a really nice dog.

Family ...

One of the things I loved about working to capture the weddings in both Suffolk and Madrid, was the time I was able to spend on the fringes of those families involved.  When you’re a long way from home time spent with families, anyones family, are pretty much never taken forgranted.

In Suffolk, a stunning manor house was rented over the weekend, as a place for the bride and groom’s families and friends to gather together.  The kitchen was the heartbeat, the hub of operations ... and there was almost always somebody there boiling a brew or simply gatheringto chat around the long kitchen island on those high stools. 

There were back stairs too, for the servants I imagine, as the main stairway was a little bit spectacular.  Anyway, I captured one of small stars of the weekend peering in at us all ...

I have a new laptop ... a Dell XPS Laptop

I have this new laptop and it has been a revelation in 21st century technology for me .... as I had no idea that photo-processing could be done at the speed of light. 

I have gone from my HP Pavilion dv2000, which started out life as a recall model that ran at boiling point, melted the second new battery invented to angle the base and allow extra air through, constantly required a cooling pad, and had a dodgy screen.  It was a laptop that had really just limped though this last year with multiple crashes and failing health.

Yesterday a fast and fabulous Dell XPS was delivered.  And no, they’re not paying me for this.

Frederika Flintstone is no longer pedalling the stone car ... Frederika is, in fact, flying a fighter jet at the speed of sound and is bemused by her wonder and awe.

Lorenzo Jovanotti is singing Bella as I write this ... it seems entirely bouncy and appropriate.

Somewhere in Suffolk ...

I apply my own professional oath, similar perhaps to the Hippocratic Oath taken by doctors ... although my oath is more of a commitment to not being photographed by anyone else.

And so it is, when I’m exploring a venue for ‘spots’ to work, I need models.  I have variety, some get grouchy after the 50th location test shot but by crikey, I do know some lovely ones.  The bride and groom photographed beautifully here the next day.

Dank u wel to my favourite model.

There was this party last night ...

And it was a most excellent party.

One of the delights in life are surely the people you meet along the way.  And so it was that last night, some of the people ‘met along the way’ all came together at my house and we partied up a storm.

Partying mostly consisting of excellent conversations with all kinds of interesting people.

Where shall I begin ... Peter and Julia flew in from Berlin, delighting us by staying a week.  They cook like angels and we have enjoyed pumpkin quiche and this stunning little Italian pasta dish.  Tonight real Italian risotto is rumoured.  I tasted my first neuhaus chocolates courtesy of them and have some lovely lillies coming into flower downstairs.  Grazie!

Michelle flew in from New York city a week ago and came to spend a night in our world, before heading off to Leiden and Rome - leaving me owner of a book on New York - that city I’m spending Thanksgiving in in 2010.  Shannon, the other New Jersey girl, jumped on a train and wandered in from Leiden yesterday.  She gifted me a beautiful new birthday scarf that I’m wearing now.

Stephanie, Patrick and Catalina stunned me with the gift of a pasta-maker, wine and flowers.  Paola and Simon rolled up with these STUNNING limoncello tirimasu (recipe at the end of this post) that were devoured almost as soon as they were set out, asking me if I had received their gift in the mail yet ...  Not yet but I am curious. But they arrived carrying stunning stunning food. 

It has to be said at this point that, I deliberately didn’t tell people it was my birthday or told them not to bring gifts.  I have obedient friends ...  but we love hosting these parties and having Peter and Julia staying seemed like a rather good excuse for a party before Christmas.

And so Shelia and Sandy, the Brits from Brussels, also rolled up bearing food - a most delicious New Zealand pavlova, with all the trimmings, charming everyone with themselves.  Lucy, a lovely Belgian, and her husband Charlie, with his Scottish accent, the one that pokes at my genetic memory and makes me smile came too, as did Cloe, Brian, Aidan, Jason, and I am going to do the unforgivable and write Cloe’s Mum - who I very much hope to visit with again in quieter circumstances.  The parties are excellent but I always wish it was simpler to talk with each and every person I know ...

Wendy and Patrice drove in from faraway places, the New Zealander and her American/Belgian husband, bringing with them Barry, a kiwi from home.  It turns out that he was an Otago Boys boy while I was a Taieri High girl ... growing up 20kms apart.  New Zealanders do this thing that we did last night, where we exchange information about people we know and places we lived back home, in that land downunder, and it turns out that while I was living in Antimony Crescent in Cromwell, he was there on Waenga Drive ... the road I drove to get home.  I wish we could have talked more but the house was full of so many truly excellent people.

Jurjana came in, resplendent I decided, in new boots and a look I hadn’t seen her wearing before.  She was bearing gifts of chocolate and book vouchers. Oh ohoh, the pleasure of BOOKS.  I shall be in FNAC on Monday, choosing some new ones.  I don’t really care so much for diamonds or jewels but books ... books are something else entirely.

Jessie and Oliver were there, as was Miss 6, who was more than happy to spend time with little Miss 2.  Quite some time, as it turns out the party finished about 2am ...

Then today, Ruth rolled in from Brussels and we’ve spent the day, all of us left here - Shannon, Michelle, Gert and I, Julia and Peter, just talking and eating, cooking and talking some more ... lunch at 5pm, eaten with the promise of risotto later tonight.

These days where Peter and Julia’s week-long-but-really-too-short visit coincided with my birthday have been truly delicious.  You can imagine it, can’t you?

November is all about me flying over to America and going on one of those wild crazy rides that I seem to do.  It’s all about Veronica and her family, with a Thanksgiving with a truly special man I shall be delighted to finally meet, it might be about an old friend in Ohio and then there’s Tonya flying in from Canada.  Let’s see how it all goes.

However, for now, last night and these days have been so much more than I could have known to wish for, and so thank you to everyone who make my birthday close to pure delight.

Limoncello Tiramisu (For 4 people) By Paola.
250g mascarpone
3eggs
100g sugar
2 lemons
1 small glass limoncello
10 to 15 savoiardi biscuits

Beat yolks and sugar. Add mascarpone and mix. Add lemon juice. Beat the whites until fluffy and add.
In a small pan reduce 100ml water and 40gr sugar on hob for 5 min. Off heat add limoncello: dunk biscuits in this liquid and line a container with them. Add half the cream. Make another layer. You could finish off with lemon peel. Enjoy.

The night before flying ... madness

There’s this check-list that automatically unfurls like a kite in the wind on the day before flying ... my to-do list arrives at DEFCON1 and I find myself achieving at an extraordinarily high level, writes this wanderer at 23.49 on ‘the night before leaving’.

Today I unexpectedly babysat Little Miss 5, chose paint for two rooms in the new house, had 100 business cards printed for the new site, had a print made for the guy who hosted my exhibition in his brasserie, dropped it off, bought a couple of light shirts because Genova will be warm, and then returned home to some work for the NGO and yes, packing.

My packing technique has changed over time and these days everything I don’t want to lose goes into my photography backpack and is carried as hand luggage which means I usually arrive at my destination slightly broken by the weight of it all.

Camera, lenses, flash, battery charger, card reader, voice recorder, phone, charger, at least one usb cable, laptop, laptop power cable, book, wallet, glasses, comb, business cards, pen ... will the journal with the important notes and interviews fit in too?

Suitcases have been a huge learning curve during this year of intensive wandering.  I arrived in Belgium with a backpackand a big black hand luggage bag for my laptop and camera gear. Time passed without much travel however eventually I was wandering again, having updated to a wheeled suitcase, making the mistake of not having any kind of external pocket for my book, passport and wallet with the first one.  I bought a small pilot’s wheeled suitcase with outer pocket but then bought the big camera ... although last time I was in Genova, I lived out of that bag and half the available space was taken up by my equipment.  I think my Genovese neighbours might not recognise me if I’m not wearing the red or the green striped shirts with my jeans this time.

Finally a good job came along, one where they wanted to pay a photographer, I had money and found a real suitcase, one that allows me to fit in my favourite feather pillow if I want.
Oh yes, a feather pillow princess ... you didn’t guess?

So anyway, it’s ciao from this Belgian-based me who has just agreed that a 4.40am alarm would be the best idea ...